The problem with any kind guarantee is that it is a guarantee. You have to remember that when you guarantee something, there is a set of expectations that you unleash. Once you unleash those expectations, you cannot recover them. It’s like getting a genie of a bottle. Once the genie has escaped, you are stuck.
The same applies with guarantees in match hookup sites. You see, there are tons of ads for these types of sites on the internet. If you are not a very critical thinker or if you don’t know how to read between the lines, chances are you would walk away thinking that these websites guarantee that you will hookup.
I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this but a guaranteed hookup is like the free lunch, both of them do not exist, so you just need a really good hookup site. Let me repeat that again, both of them do not exist. Unfortunately, there are so many guys who get exposed to these types of ads and they can’t help but assume the best. They can’t help but expect the best. This is really sad because most of them end up falling flat. Even if they don’t pay one red cent to join these websites, they still lose out.
You see, even if you don’t spend money, you can still lose a huge amount of value in any kind of activity you do. Why? You could’ve invested your time doing something else that would either make you more money or make you a better person. Maybe instead of going to a match hookup site that doesn’t work, you go to the gym and you walk out after a few weeks with a chiseled Greek god-like body. Do you see where I’m coming from?
This is why you have to navigate and deal with match hookup sites without the fuss. The best way to do this of course is to make sure that you have the right mindset. Make sure that you assume that it will work. If you’re able to do this you would be able to focus on the right things and send the right signals so you can increase your likelihood of success.
If you’re unable to do this or if you’re unable to commit to it, then chances are you will fail.
